The Alpha Male
A woman is naturally attracted to the leader of the pack. This is what you have heard called “The alpha male." Why do you think this is the case? What does it take to be the alpha male in a situation? The answer is sexual chemistry, leadership, confidence and power.
Each situation is different and each situation will have alpha males involved. You will recognize the alpha male because he is surrounded and supported by other males who back him up. He has established his leadership in the group. He is not necessarily the loudest or most noticeable one. He could be the one who sits quietly not saying or doing much at all.
He projects complete confidence. He is not challenged by the other males who know him. They follow his lead and they admire him. If there is another alpha male in the area who wants to challenge him he is up for it and he knows how to defend or maintain his rank.
Most bar room fights between men are all about establishing the pecking order in the pack. I was always curiously amazed how a fight could break out between men in a bar and by the end of the night they are all best of buddies. The alpha male has been chosen. His most worthy challenger then becomes his second in command, and sometimes his best buddy.
It is so very much like mating instincts of animals. After the alpha male is established in the group, he usually has his pick of the most desired women. If he is the true alpha male of the group, the woman he wants will have difficulty resisting him. She may even pursue him.
A female who is ovulating is unconsciously attracted to the alpha male of the group. It doesn’t matter if she is with her husband or not. She can’t help herself. She will find herself very attracted to the alpha male, when normally she would not consider such a thing. This is when her husband (or date) will begin to act more aggressively in response to the attraction going on between his girl and the alpha male. This can be a dangerous situation, so it is one to be aware of.
Some pickup artists will practice the techniques of an alpha male and have a certain amount of success with women, but if they do not develop their true confidence and leadership character among their peers, they may have to settle for being second or third behind the true alpha male whom they admire and support in group situations. This seems to satisfy some men because they can still get their share of women as the alpha male will usually not hog them all.
If you are only pretending or practicing to be an alpha male you will not do well in a group situation with a true alpha male and you may have to learn some techniques to isolate your target in order to be successful.
Attraction is not a choice when it comes to certain chemistry between an alpha male and a receptive woman, especially if she is ovulating, but you can still do or say the wrong things and mess it up if you are not well versed on the signs. You have to be very alert to what is going on and to body language.
Learn more about body language from John Alexander Right here:
Body Language
An estimated 67% to 93% of human communication (according to university researchers) is non-verbal, and your body language reveals your internal emotional state. Whether someone's parents just died, or whether they just got promoted to CEO... you can tell by observing their body language.
So, as a man who tries to pick up and seduce women, you should be mindful of what you're communicating non-verbally.
Body language consists of the following:
- Your movements. They should be nonchalant, as if you're so fabulously successful that there's rarely a reason for you to rush nor try to impress anybody. Move through the world doing what you want and assuming that others will follow.
- The displacement of your body. Your arms and legs should be spread out. Don't be afraid to take up space.
- Your voice. It should have a calm, soothing, and commanding effect. Don't speak too fast or strain your voice.
- Your face. Keep your facial muscles relaxed. Never tense your jaw, and only rarely should you frown or wrinkle your brow.
- Your shoulders. Keep them relaxed like they'd be if you just got a massage. Don't raise them up like a nervous person.
I would even go as far as to say that you body language is more important than anything you say, because if your body language doesn't match what you say, then you won't succeed with women.
You see, if you tell a woman stories that convey your confidence, but at the same time you slump over and fold your arms, then you come across as fake.
I've picked up women before merely through the use of my body language. For example, a couple months ago I was at a coffee shop that I frequent, lounging on the couch, arms spread out, with my feet up on the table.
The mindset I had was that I felt so comfortable that it was as if I were in my home lounging on my own couch. It was as if I owned the coffee shop.
The net result was that a girl sitting near me put down her book and started engaging me in random small talk.
(Whenever an attractive girl you don't know starts a random conversation with you, you should ALWAYS assume that she's attracted to you. This is because women generally won't risk the whole male-female dynamic, especially with a stranger, unless they feel attraction.)
The conversation went on for awhile, I got her number, called her that night, and a few days later we met and after several hours went to her place, where I spent the night. (We finally had sex in the morning.)
The bottom line though is that she became initially attracted to me and approached me because of my body language.
Now, of course body language isn't enough. You also must have an internal alpha male mindset that's consistent with your body language.
But make no mistake about it... if your body language conveys confidence, then your mood will also shift to become more confident. And have you ever noticed how when you walk with a spring in your step, you feel more upbeat?
Conversely, when you cast your eyes down and drag your feet, you feel depressed. So your mindset also follows the body language that you adopt.
So, in conclusion, be an alpha male with your mindset and your body language. Be in a woman's personal space and be sexual and interested in her, but at the same time don't be needy or desperate for her attention. Just be comfortable and enjoy yourself.
And when your body language conveys that, it means you'll later be comfortable and enjoying yourself... with the woman.
John Alexander is author of "How to Become an Alpha Male" , a seduction success system for men that will have you displaying body language that attracts women like a magnet.
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